Valentines Day is approaching fast and all over the web you’re beginning to see articles of romantic ideas and advice on how to make the day special for your sweetie. And while we here love the romance angle of Valentines, sometimes you just want get to the good stuff. So we decided to deliver you some tips and tricks for the naughtier side of Valentines and to give you some ideas for the ‘grand finale’, if you will, of the evening. So we’ve scoured the web and culled together a list of what we felt were some creative and unique sex ideas that you might want to try out while love (and hot, sweaty sex) is in the air.




We kick things off with a tip for making out:

Lean in and lick the corners of his lips (they’re erogenous hot spots). Then, with the tip of your tongue, trace his lips all the way around. (If he darts his tongue out, offer him just the soft inside of your lips to build anticipation.) Next, slowly slide your tongue around his. Move your tongue in and out of his mouth provocatively and then pull back a bit to invite his tongue into your mouth. Sweep the tip of your tongue along the underside of his; then softly circle and gently suck on it. At the same time, run your fingers through his hair and down his face and neck, which will heighten the whole sensual experience.

Moving on to a little foreplay, here’s a tip that’s sure to get a rise out of him:

Using a fake strand of pearls (this trick will ruin the real deal), cover them generously with lube. Coil the pearls around the shaft of his penis comfortably but snuggly enough that the beads rest against his package. Intertwine your fingers and place the palms of your hand on either side of his penis. Next, slide your hands up and down in a wave motion, causing the warm, smooth beads to roll over the length of his shaft.

Here’s a bit of sexy advice that’s good for the both of you:

Climb into the backseat of your car and tell him to chauffeur you to a sex shop. Make him wait in the car with the engine running while you run in and buy yourself a new vibe. Slip it into your purse so he can’t see your new purchase. No matter how much he begs you to show him, don’t! Next, go out for a drink, and tease him about your naughty purchase. Can he guess what it is? On your way home, break out your new toy and pleasure yourself with it in the backseat. Give him a play-by-play on how good it feels. Then once you get home, grab him and go primal. Shag like rock stars. Make history.

And, we’ll top it off with one more oral sex tip:

This trick is so simple but so amazing. “While giving him oral sex, slide a finger into your mouth and tickle his penis at the same time you’re stimulating him with your lips and tongue,” says St. Claire. “It’s an unexpected new sensation for him.”

Now before we go, I realize that there are some of you who will not be spending Valentines with anyone. Having said that, we’re gonna’ toss in tip for the solo players out there. Because self-love is soooo underrated. We thought this was a very creative and sexy masturbation idea for both men and women that involves the use of bubble wrap.

For the women:
Take a length of bubble wrap and roll it tightly, bubble-side out for additional texture, until it’s as thick as you like. Place a condom over the roll of bubble wrap, and use a rubber band or tape to hold the end of the condom in place.

For the men:
Take this same idea and invert it by making the bubble wrap into a tube, bubble-side in.

The bubble texture is sure to send you into a head spinning orgasm.

So there you have a few ideas to get you started thinking creatively for this upcoming Valentines. It’s a perfect time to break the sex mold and do something daring, so loosen up, and try getting a little wild. Whether your single, dating, married or just having a good ol’ fling, make this year one that you’ll remember.

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